Dear Lounge Advice, I am new to the site (not new to the lifestyle) and get tested at least once a year for STDs. I have my stats in my hand, ready to show others. I am finding it a challenge to get others to respond/reciprocate in the same manner. I want to practice safe sex and simply having someone say "disease free" is not enough these days! Any advice for me in how to get this info? I gather if they don't give it, then no play :( ? Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), Hi there This is a personal preference...if you want to have verification that the people you are going to play with are clean, then that is something that should be stated up front...and if others are "hesitant" to share this info...My choice would be to not play with anyone who is unwilling to reciprocate. Some people may not offer this information up unless asked...Sooooo I suggest you just ask...I might even preface the conversation with the fact that you have your results and would like to share, etc.... Hope this helps Good Luck and Stay Sexy!